Trust and respect is the pillar of all relationships. Of course, commitment is the core of trust, forget not that. If there is no commitment from one, it could crumble the strongest adherence of trust.
Asking for a password is an indication that trust, respect and discussions are missing, more specifically trust is lost.
When one asks for the password, ask the person why the password is needed. Whatever the reasons be given, when meditated upon, 90 % of explanations emerges out to be, due to mistrust.
Sharing password often leads to spying or controlling another person. It's a sign of inspection, seeking proof. Relationship isn’t about inspections, seeking proof, everything same and having no personal room.
“I am an open book, I have no problem in sharing”, says anonymous. Everything seems a good idea when you are in a relationship... you love each other truly and trust each other... it looks like a transparent symbol of trust... Once relationship gets into suspicion or rather ends in certain case, it's a huge complicated. Even if it continue to last, suspicion unconciously exists.
“It's common for partners to share their passwords since they truly believe that this is a significant step to show trust", said anonymous. But when look at it closely, it can clearly be seen that it originates from the lost of trust. Sharing password isn’t a genuine way to show trust. There are, a million of other ways. It isn't a healthy way to deepen trust. Have or nothing to hide, there needs no inspection to trust. If one wants to cheat, even after sharing of passwords one can surely do so. One can never stop the other from cheating by just with the password.
Updating status, photos, etc. from the other's account itself escorts to fear of or fear to... That fear of or fear to, whether a minor or major issue, is borned of a trust issue.
What, if one uses the same passwords for the multiple accounts, viz. Social networks (Facebook, Twitter, ..), media sharing networks (Instagram, YouTube, Snapchat,...), discussions forrum (viz. Quora, ...), Blogging and publishing networks (Blogger, WordPress, ...), Professional networks (viz LinkedIn, Classroom2.0, ) Educational Networks (Viz. The Student Room, Unaccademy, Google Books, Google Scholar, ResearchGate, PubMed Central, Academia.edu, ..), Commercial networks (Internet Banking, Paytm, Google Pay, Amazon, Flipkart, Myntra, Uber, OlaCabs, Amway, Snapdeal, Jabong, Alibaba.com, ...).
Asking for a password is 90 % borned of the lost of trust. Fear and suspicion is the genesis of mistrust.
Respecting privacy is borned of TRUST.
The choice is yours whether to cling on to trust on or seek out for a proof.
Asking for a password is an indication that trust, respect and discussions are missing, more specifically trust is lost.
When one asks for the password, ask the person why the password is needed. Whatever the reasons be given, when meditated upon, 90 % of explanations emerges out to be, due to mistrust.
Sharing password often leads to spying or controlling another person. It's a sign of inspection, seeking proof. Relationship isn’t about inspections, seeking proof, everything same and having no personal room.
“I am an open book, I have no problem in sharing”, says anonymous. Everything seems a good idea when you are in a relationship... you love each other truly and trust each other... it looks like a transparent symbol of trust... Once relationship gets into suspicion or rather ends in certain case, it's a huge complicated. Even if it continue to last, suspicion unconciously exists.
“It's common for partners to share their passwords since they truly believe that this is a significant step to show trust", said anonymous. But when look at it closely, it can clearly be seen that it originates from the lost of trust. Sharing password isn’t a genuine way to show trust. There are, a million of other ways. It isn't a healthy way to deepen trust. Have or nothing to hide, there needs no inspection to trust. If one wants to cheat, even after sharing of passwords one can surely do so. One can never stop the other from cheating by just with the password.
Updating status, photos, etc. from the other's account itself escorts to fear of or fear to... That fear of or fear to, whether a minor or major issue, is borned of a trust issue.
What, if one uses the same passwords for the multiple accounts, viz. Social networks (Facebook, Twitter, ..), media sharing networks (Instagram, YouTube, Snapchat,...), discussions forrum (viz. Quora, ...), Blogging and publishing networks (Blogger, WordPress, ...), Professional networks (viz LinkedIn, Classroom2.0, ) Educational Networks (Viz. The Student Room, Unaccademy, Google Books, Google Scholar, ResearchGate, PubMed Central, Academia.edu, ..), Commercial networks (Internet Banking, Paytm, Google Pay, Amazon, Flipkart, Myntra, Uber, OlaCabs, Amway, Snapdeal, Jabong, Alibaba.com, ...).
Asking for a password is 90 % borned of the lost of trust. Fear and suspicion is the genesis of mistrust.
Respecting privacy is borned of TRUST.
The choice is yours whether to cling on to trust on or seek out for a proof.
Social media is a bone of contention in a relationship.
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